The red A is for Site Admins, the green M is for Mods. Then I'm pretty sure the skulls represent which prestige someone is. Not sure about the rest however.
I agree with the demotion to an extent as it is suspicious, but what happened to "reasonable doubt"? Junaid got a free pass with that reasonable doubt stuff despite having a lot more evidence against him, whereas KingMC was punished. Nothing against Junaid, but the EET fairly hypocritical.
I don't really think there should be laws against it. If people really want to they will do it either way, regardless of whether or not that means legally. So keeping it legal would allow people to do it safely, and still leave the decision up to the women as it is her body.