If I would have lost a mew, I wouldn't have been complaining for it. It's your own fault for even thinking about trading it in the first place. If you wouldn't have tried to traded it, you wouldn't be in this predicament.
For one, I didn't donate myself. I had a really nice friend donate $5 for me to get an XP share. I myself have lost a level 68 Vaporeon and a level 59 Electabuzz that took me a week to train. You don't see me making threads boo-hooing about a lost pokemon. It was your own fault that you lost your mew, trading it in the first place. Ice would tell you the same thing, why would you need him specificly to state the obvious?